{"id":10210,"date":"2011-12-25T10:49:30","date_gmt":"2011-12-25T15:49:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.prosebeforehos.com\/?p=10210"},"modified":"2012-12-26T16:07:48","modified_gmt":"2012-12-26T21:07:48","slug":"occupy-wall-streets-asshole-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.prosebeforehos.com\/article-of-the-day\/12\/25\/occupy-wall-streets-asshole-problem\/","title":{"rendered":"Occupy Wall Street’s Asshole Problem"},"content":{"rendered":"

The Article:<\/strong> Occupy’s Asshole Problem: Flashbacks from an Old Hippie<\/a><\/em> by Sara Fellow, Senior Fellow for Campaign for America’s Future.<\/p>\n

The Text:<\/strong> I wish I could say that the problems that the Occupy movement is having with infiltrators and agitators are new. But they\u2019re not. In fact, they\u2019re problems that the Old Hippies who survived the 60s and 70s remember acutely, and with considerable pain.<\/p>\n

As a veteran of those days \u2014 with the scars to prove it \u2014 watching the OWS organizers struggle with drummers, druggies, sexual harassers, racists, and anarchists brings me back to a few lessons we had to learn the hard way back in the day, always after putting up with way too much over-the-top behavior from people we didn\u2019t think we were allowed to say \u201cno\u201d to. It\u2019s heartening to watch the Occupiers begin to work out solutions to what I can only indelicately call \u201cthe asshole problem.\u201d In the hope of speeding that learning process along, here are a few glimmers from my own personal flashbacks \u2014 things that it\u2019s high time somebody said right out loud.<\/p>\n

1. Let\u2019s be clear: It is absolutely OK to insist on behavior norms. #Occupy may be a DIY movement \u2014 but it also stands for very specific ideas and principles. Central among these is: We are here to reassert the common good. And we have a LOT of work to do. Being open and accepting does not mean that we\u2019re obligated to accept behavior that damages our ability to achieve our goals. It also means that we have a perfect right to insist that people sharing our spaces either act in ways that further those goals, or go somewhere else until they\u2019re able to meet that standard.<\/p>\n

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2. It is OK to draw boundaries between those who are clearly working toward our goals, and those who are clearly not. Or, as an earlier generation of change agents put it: \u201cYou\u2019re either on the bus, or off the bus.\u201d Are you here to change the way this country operates, and willing to sacrifice some of your almighty personal freedom to do that? Great. You\u2019re with us, and you\u2019re welcome here. Are you here on your own trip and expecting the rest of us to put up with you? In that case, you are emphatically NOT on our side, and you are not welcome in our space.<\/p>\n

Anybody who feels the need to put their own personal crap ahead of the health and future of the movement is (at least for that moment) an asshole, and does not belong in Occupied space. Period. This can be a very hard idea for people in an inclusive movement to accept \u2014 we really want to have all voices heard. But the principles #Occupy stands for must always take precedence over any individual\u2019s divine right to be an asshole, or the assholes will take over. Which brings me to\u2026.<\/p>\n

3. The consensus model has a fatal flaw, which is this: It\u2019s very easy for power to devolve to the people who are willing to throw the biggest tantrums. When some a drama king or queen starts holding the process hostage for their own reasons, congratulations! You\u2019ve got a new asshole! (See #2.) You must guard against this constantly, or consensus government becomes completely impossible.<\/p>\n

4. Once you\u2019ve accepted the right of the group to set boundaries around people\u2019s behavior, and exclude those who put their personal \u201crights\u201d ahead of the group\u2019s mission and goals, the next question becomes: How do we deal with chronic assholes?<\/p>\n

This is the problem Occupy\u2019s leaders are very visibly struggling with now. I\u2019ve been a part of asshole-infested groups in the long-ago past that had very good luck with a whole-group restorative justice process. In this process, the full group (or some very large subset of it that\u2019s been empowered to speak for the whole) confronts the troublemaker directly. The object is not to shame or blame. Instead, it\u2019s like an intervention. You simply point out what you have seen and how it affects you. The person is given a clear choice: make some very specific changes in their behavior, or else leave.<\/p>\n

This requires some pre-organization. You need three to five spokespeople to moderate the session (usually as a tag team) and do most of the talking. Everybody else simply stands in a circle around the offender, watching silently, looking strong and determined. The spokespeople make factual \u201cwe\u201d statements that reflect the observations of the group. \u201cWe have seen you using drugs inside Occupied space. We are concerned that this hurts our movement. We are asking you to either stop, or leave.\u201d<\/p>\n

When the person tries to make excuses (and one of the most annoying attributes of chronic assholes is they\u2019re usually skilled excuse-makers as well), then other members of the group can speak up \u2014 always with \u201cI\u201d messages. \u201cI saw you smoking a joint with X and Y under tree Z this morning. We\u2019re all worried about the cops here, and we think you\u2019re putting our movement in danger. We are asking you to leave.\u201d Every statement needs to end with that demand \u2014 \u201cWe are asking you to either stop, or else leave and not come back.\u201d No matter what the troublemaker says, the response must always be brought back to this bottom line.<\/p>\n

These interventions can go on for a LONG time. You have to be committed to stay in the process, possibly for a few hours until the offender needs a pee break or gets hungry. But eventually, if everybody stays put, the person will have no option but to accept that a very large group of people do not want him or her there. Even truly committed assholes will get the message that they\u2019ve crossed the line into unacceptable behavior when they\u2019re faced with several dozen determined people confronting them all at once.<\/p>\n

Given the time this takes, it\u2019s tempting to cut corners by confronting several people all at once. Don\u2019t do it. Confronting more than two people at a time creates a diffusion-of-responsibility effect: the troublemakers tell themselves that they just got caught up in a dragnet; the problem is those other people, not me. The one who talks the most will get most of the heat; the others will tend to slip by (though the experience may cause them to reconsider their behavior or leave as well).<\/p>\n

This process also leaves open the hope that the person will really, truly get that their behavior is Not OK, and agree to change it. When this happens, be sure to negotiate specific changes, boundaries, rules, and consequences (\u201cif we see you using drugs here again, we will call the police. There will be no second warning\u201d), and then reach a consensus agreement that allows them to stay. On the other hand: if the person turns violent and gets out of control, then the question is settled, and their choice is made. You now have a legitimate reason to call the cops to haul them away. And the cops will likely respect you more for maintaining law and order.<\/p>\n

Clearing out a huge number of these folks can be a massive time suck, at least for the few days it will take to weed out the worst ones and get good at it. It might make sense to create a large committee whose job it is to gather information, build cases against offenders, and conduct these meetings.<\/p>\n

And finally:<\/p>\n

5. It is not wrong for you to set boundaries this way. You will get shit for this. \u201cBut\u2026but\u2026it looks a whole lot like a Maoist purge unit!\u201d No. There is nothing totalitarian about asking people who join your revolution to act in ways that support the goals of that revolution. And the Constitution guarantees your right of free association \u2014 which includes the right to exclude people who aren\u2019t on the bus, and who are wasting the group\u2019s limited time and energy rather than maximizing it. After all: you\u2019re not sending these people to re-education camps, or doing anything else that damages them. You\u2019re just getting them out of the park, and out of your hair. You\u2019re eliminating distractions, which in turn effectively amplifies the voices and efforts of everyone else around you. And, in the process, you\u2019re also modeling a new kind of justice that sanctions people\u2019s behavior without sanctioning their being \u2014 while also carving out safe space in which the true potential of Occupy can flourish.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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