Love In The Time Of Gay Marriage
The Article: And Baby Makes Five: Modern Love In The Era Of Gay Marriage by Julie Weiner in Vanity Fair.
The Text: I first met Martinās ex-boyfriend at a tuxedo shop on lower Fifth Avenue. I had known Martin had been living with Ted six months before we starting dating. Through his and Martinās shared DVD collection, I had known Tedās affinity for French New Wave and the Weekend at Bernieās series; through Martinās closet, Tedās old Yale sweatshirts; through Martinās maritime trinkets and hand-selected seashells, I had learned of Tedās familyās cottage on Marthaās Vineyard.
But before that blustery October day, when I introduced myself to Ted and greeted him with a hug, I had never known of Tedās easy warmth, unreserved kindness, and sleepy, autumnal smell. I walked into the tuxedo shop the day before my wedding to Martin for a last-minute alteration. What I ended up altering was all three of our lives.
I invited Ted home to the prewar town house that Martin and I had recently purchased on King Street, in a liminal, industrial area between SoHo and the West Village.